As a woman, it feels really good to know that a lot of men like you but it’s better to know that only a few will actually try to get your heart. I know. I’m kind of surprised by how some women get flattered and jittery whenever “some guy” shows interest. Uhm… no, thank you. Why? ‘Cause it only means that:
1. Men think too lowly of you that even those who are, let’s say… underachieved, think they can get you
2. Men think getting in your pants is as easy as you are
3. Everybody thinks you’re in their league
4. Men don’t see you as someone they should try — work harder to have
Actually, 1-4 have the same context. I just wanted to break it down for, erm, emphasis.
So women, please set standards. Too many men in and out of your life makes you look easy peasy. Especially in their eyes.